I’ve been taking a lot of risks lately – not physical risks like skydiving or bungee jumping…but more of the emotional type of risks.
I have just been going for it – and guess what? It feels AHH-MAZING!
I’ve been reaching out to people and asking them to be a part of my team (Team Fight For Fit). I’ve been asking people if they would like to join challenge groups to work on their health and fitness. I have been connecting with old friends I haven’t seen in a while (like years) and asking them to hang out.
I am going after what I want. I am going after what I want my life to look like. I’m being more authentically ME.
Even when the people I reach out to don’t respond or they say no – you know what? I feel PROUD. I’m proud of myself. Proud that I tried. Proud that I won’t keep wondering “what if” because now I have an answer.
The rejections I get. The silence on the other end. It means I’m LIVING. It means I’m working towards my dreams.
And do you know something else I’ve recently realized? It’s not about whether the person says yes to joining my team or not. It’s not about whether the person responds or not to my offer…it’s actually NOT about the outcome at all.
Before, I used to think it was ALL about the end result. That’s how you measure success – how many “yes’s” you get, how many people you recruit, how much money is in the bank – BUT I’m here to tell you it’s NOT!
As I put myself out there more and more, share my personal thoughts and feelings, share my transformations (inside and outside) I realize it’s all about the PROCESS. It’s about who I am becoming.
I am becoming STRONGER. More confident. More sure of what I want for myself. Of who I want to be. Of my purpose in life (besides wife and mother).
So, today I say to you: Do what scares the CRAP out of you. Do that one thing that you are afraid to do.
Climb that wall. Jump that hurdle. Because, what’s on the other side is BEAUTIFUL. It may not look like what you expected, BUT it’s beautiful all the same.